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Opinion | Straight Acting:
Call Me By Your Name
During the thirteen years I was an actor, I played roles representing various gender identities, races and sexual
Porn may be screwing with you: I have to admit that porn has played a large supporting role in the backdrop of my life so far, and I have mixed feelings about this.
Boost Yoself!: Having low self-confidence is a major obstacle in life. So, when you don’t believe in yourself, then it’s harder for others to believe in you. Sometimes
Men’s health | Morning hard-ons – What’s that about?: Pitching-a-tent, morning wood, ‘n pishoring or ukuvukelwa; whatever you call
Opinion: Objectifying Yourself? Sexual Object vs Sentient Being (or both?): If you enjoy hookups and no-strings-attached sex with strangers,
Opinion: Let’s not be “sies”- gender: As a teenager, I often presented as a girl, because I had a baby face and the art school I attended allowed me to
Sexual health: Coping with barebacking peer pressure: Barebacking (condomless sex) still happens – a lot. This is even though most of us know that
Close, but no cigar – Finding intimacy again when you’re newly single: I was lucky. Our break-up was sad and emotional, but we both
Sex vs. Intimacy – Grabbing a shag when a hug would do: It’s not unusual to hear a guy say something like: “Damn, it’s been too long
Health: Getting testy: Standing on Seapoint Main road in Cape Town has many connotations. More than a decade ago, my friend and I were doing just that, but it was daytime