Comments on: Getting Anal https://www.mambaonline.com/2000/01/01/getting-anal/ South Africa's leading LGBTQ news and community platform Thu, 10 Aug 2017 15:15:55 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: lovelife https://www.mambaonline.com/2000/01/01/getting-anal/#comment-39656 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 19:26:52 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2000/01/01/getting-anal/#comment-39656 I thought I was the only gay in the village who found anal sex banal, painful and generally unpleasant. And most of ex lovers used to get confused and exasperated when I insisted on a more “intimate” apparoach to lovemaking that doesn’t make anal sex the “holy grail” .

Not to dog out those who do, there have been 1 or two instances where I’ve enjoyed anal sex thoroughly. But the lovers concerned never insisted on it and seemed more interested in getting closer to me.

Ironically, this inspired me to be more of the aggressor and initiate being penetrated because I found their insistence of romance sooo hot.

I think that it is time that gay guys open avenues for other forms of pleasure; mutual blow jobs, ass rimming, rubbing your cocks together, sensual kissing and incorporating non-abarasive toys also does the trick.

At the end of it all we have to ask ourselves, is it the penetration of another man the ultimate goal of our sexual experience? Or is being intimate the eventual intent that has been erroneously marred by making anal penetration an absolute requirement?

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