Comments on: WHEN A LOVER CHEATS: PART 1 https://www.mambaonline.com/2006/04/26/when-a-lover-cheats-part-1/ South Africa's leading LGBTQ news and community platform Wed, 26 Apr 2006 00:00:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Monogamous https://www.mambaonline.com/2006/04/26/when-a-lover-cheats-part-1/#comment-4775 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2006/04/26/when-a-lover-cheats-part-1/#comment-4775 Cheating. Fact: 90% of gay men are unfaithful or in agreed non-monogamous relationships. No matter which one it is, the reason being sexual addiction and an obsession with sex among gay men (The cause of this, well, that is another dabate). This obsession and unfaithfulness is also the cause why 90% of gay relationships don’t work out (fact).
One just have to be patient and look hard enough for that 10% in which one will find a man to have a healthy monogamous relationship with.
(I talk out of experience).

]]> By: ONE MAN... ONE LOVE https://www.mambaonline.com/2006/04/26/when-a-lover-cheats-part-1/#comment-4776 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2006/04/26/when-a-lover-cheats-part-1/#comment-4776 In reply to Monogamous.

Cheating. I am in a relationship, and I am 100 per cent convinced that my partner has not been unfaithfully towards me in the past eight and a half months we have been together, and I have also not been unfaithful towards him.

We find each other more than enough, both emotionally and sexually. We have agreed from the start to be monogamous, and also went for HIV tests before any sexual contact took place between the two of us.

I hope that we will become role models of monogamy in the gay community, helping young guys live a better, more meaningfull life like we are doing!

]]> By: Lucky https://www.mambaonline.com/2006/04/26/when-a-lover-cheats-part-1/#comment-4782 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2006/04/26/when-a-lover-cheats-part-1/#comment-4782 simple truth…. The simple truth is..
that one has to make a choice
to be monogamous or not.
but more importantly to believe that that is what we want..
I personaly have not been in a monogamous relationship before, not that i have chosen not to do so, but because i have chosen to accept that my partners honesty from the begining that we arnt exclusive.
Infedelity is common place in todays culture, that cannot be changed.
I do however see the logic behind it, and can only say that unless an understanding is formed between two people from the onset, fault is certain to arise.
Ps. though many of us prefer monogamy, such as myself, circumstances unfortunatly dont always grant us our wishes.
We can therefore only prepare ourselves for all possibilties, and yes, i do believe we can prepare ourselves for heart break… its called
Appreciation..

]]> By: Guest https://www.mambaonline.com/2006/04/26/when-a-lover-cheats-part-1/#comment-4796 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2006/04/26/when-a-lover-cheats-part-1/#comment-4796 In reply to Lucky.

er, no, I dont think so….. stop this drivel….

if you prefered to be monogamous, you would be.

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