Comments on: DEAR JOHN https://www.mambaonline.com/2007/04/04/dear-john-2/ South Africa's leading LGBTQ news and community platform Wed, 04 Apr 2007 00:00:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.10 By: redhot https://www.mambaonline.com/2007/04/04/dear-john-2/#comment-5719 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2007/04/04/dear-john-2/#comment-5719 thats true. all you guys out there remember there is no short cut to a place worth going to

]]> By: Bob https://www.mambaonline.com/2007/04/04/dear-john-2/#comment-5729 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2007/04/04/dear-john-2/#comment-5729 Unsure. To guy in the last letter – Unsure – I was in a similar, if not identicle sitation about 7 years ago, I think many of us have been – It very nearly killed me before I broke the ties and it was ridiculously difficult to maintain that distance – for about 2 years – and then when I saw him again, and when I see him now, I really cannot fathom what I saw in this man… I have grown and moved on in leaps and bounds and am so much better for it. Doing what’s right is not always easy, but it pays off in the end… Good luck.

]]> By: Bob https://www.mambaonline.com/2007/04/04/dear-john-2/#comment-5743 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2007/04/04/dear-john-2/#comment-5743 To Weary World Traveller. Ive got to ask a few questions: You are 20, you have lived two years in the uk, 1 year in germany and now living in china… Where are your parents through all this and what passport are you on if it is South African how are you able to live all over? So I dont quite believe part of your letter…

You started your journey at like 16, so that means you were having sex at a age that is considered under age in most countries? Tho wonder your minds all f*cked up…

My suggestion is that you have not learnt family morals or self worth and you will continue to go through life alone and always de-valueing yourself until such time as you learn how to respect yourself.

So I fully support what John has said although his way of saying iyt is all airy fairy… I also agree that you should come home and ground yourself…

Look me up when you get here, Ill volunteer as your first friend (and by that I mean friend without benefits)…

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