Comments on: SO MANY MEN…SO LITTLE TIME!

By: Foxy SEX XXXXXX

Foxy SEX XXXXXX — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

In reply to Unapologetic. Unapologetic think again. It's not something to be proud of to tell us you sleep around. We couldn't care less if you hump till your willy rots off with syphillis. The only achievement you get out of sleeping around is getting a reputation of being the Village Bicycle. And we all know whats happen to the Village Bicycle after everyone had their turm (jou wiel word pap) - you get a flat! LOL

There are plenty of gay men in stable relationships who have to fight off homophobia from people because of your slutty behaviour.

Who would want to be with a man thats a slut?---- Answer: another slut!

By: Heart

Heart — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Still NOT justifyable !. So , if the straight people do it , makes it acceptable ?

"The point should not be to take the moral high ground but rather to accept and celebrate sexual variance and promote sexual health, and responsibility, free from shame and condemnation."

Moral high ground ?
Its just plain morals !

Sexual Variance is about as moral as a whore.
Which his pretty similar , minus the charge.
Which suits everyone just fine as it is.

We all enjoy sex , and yes , we all want to have it , but when you reach the point , which most gay men and by the looks of things , most of these articles too which I have read over the years , sexual variance is the ONLY angle , its the only thing , its the only goal.

Within the heterosexual world, another common trend seems to be that the promiscuity of the straight world is being criticized aplenty , whereas here in the gay world , its the encouraged thing , its the better choice.

Frankly,
Its not even morals,
Its standards.

If these men are people who you care for , who you see yourself actually being with in a serious ( aka , not just sex based ) relationship, then hump till it falls off , have sex ever hour,second,angle and possible way possible , BUT , if you are the kind of person who JUST WANTS SEX , then frankly,

Your are a whore , minus the benefit of the cash.

By: Marina (yes, that one)

Marina (yes, that one) — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Interesting perspective. A very interesting article and perspective. I think the idea of males being genetically wired to “spread their genes” all over is probably responsible for a lot of prmiscuous behaviour. BUT NOT ONLY AMONG GAY MEN, as stated. I think most straight men, married or not, would sleep with women besides their wife/girlfriend if they could get away with it.

It’s understandable why society sort of rejects that kind of behaviour, but isn’t it also, in a way, rejecting something a person can’t help? If promiscuity is genetically wired in, then society is rejecting something that makes us what we are.

By: Sugar

Sugar — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

True. If you sleep around and have sex with as many men as you want what self respect do you have for yourself and your own body??

By: GodsArt

GodsArt — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Hell No. Its all about self-control, guys should learn to control their hormones. I would rather wank than be a slut of the town.

In the gay world everyone knows everybody. You will hear most guys saying "that's my ex" or "I've slept with that one". No wonder most gay guys are contracting HIV/Aids.

I don't trust gay guys.

By: heart42

heart42 — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Yeah Right. We all are guilty of the fact that we want to have our bread buttered on both sides. ..
Get involved. We still go out and cheet on bfs! It is in our nature and we are all freaking sick in the head!
We are all naturally born promiscous!

By: nicethighs

nicethighs — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

TRUE. True we are sexually active. I remember one day I was fucked by 5 guys and still needed one.

By: nicethighs

nicethighs — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

TRUE. True we are sexually active. I remember one day I was fucked by 5 guys and still needed one.

By: johan8508

johan8508 — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

true. This is scary but it is true, gay men are not gay men anymore, im 23 but i know alot of gay men even on mamba that does this almost every week…

By: Delibrat

Delibrat — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Health or Sanity?. The debate is well construed, and one can hardly disagree with most points raised. However, it isn’t merely a matter of survival, health (physical and mental) or self preservation – such a view is far too clinical and self-centered. As long as there is no long term commitment or moral, ethical objections, I suppose that one can argue for having as much “fun” as you can fit into 24 hours. However, one can argue against this as long as there is the future possibility of entering into a relationship beyond animal sexuality due to psychological repercussions of the promiscuity so indulged in. There is however NO QUESTION once there is commitment. Any further promiscuity would be damaging to the alternate party in the relationship, and the relationship itself, and as such cannot be condoned, irrespective of health issues. And that goes equally for gay and straight, boy and girl and anything in between.