Comments on: THE GAY-FOR-PAY BACKLASH https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/ South Africa's leading LGBTQ news and community platform Wed, 28 Jan 2009 23:00:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: babo https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8163 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8163 liers. Some of us dont face the reality, they keep on lying even if it is obvious. for instance, you cannot kiss or make sex with the other man, and tell people that, you are a straight guy. This is impossible!!!!!!

]]> By: Anonymous https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8054 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8054 In reply to roy.

Very true boytjie. I think you’ve just hit the nail on the head…

]]> By: xplicitfag https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8053 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8053 Gay-for-pay. This has always been such an interesting and complicated topic. I have come to realise though that people cannot be boxed into gay or straight, we are so sexually diverse, more than we care to admit. I’m starting to believe Alfred Kinsey

]]> By: Eish! https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8046 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8046 In reply to jesus das asun??es.

Missing the point. Dude! (or is it dudette?) Read the article again- It seems YOU are the one that’s missing the point bra…

]]> By: whateva https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8039 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8039 Chris Rockway. I don’t care Chris Rockway is thee MAN !
He Rocks & FUcks & tantalizes – Who cares about the rest!

]]> By: jesus das asun??es https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8032 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8032 are you serious?. i guess the people around here, and in mamba mansions are socialised so “gay” and so far away from the straight porn industry to realise that in straight porn, it’s the women who make all the money, not the men.

while some of these men may be really “bisexual” or “gay but not gaaaaaaaaay”, this article completely is missing the one major factor: if you make your money from sticking your dick in someone’s hole, you make a lot more poking a man than poking a woman.

it really is *that* simple.

you moffies crack me up.

]]> By: roy https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8030 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8030 In reply to Jaco.

article. It’s NOT REAL, guys!!
The boys are ACTING in front of cameras, with lighting, equipment, crew all around – and someone making tea.
You are not watching someone in their own home. This is not voyeurism or reality TV it’s a FILM. What do we care what they do off camera and with whom?
Should the lead characters in Brokeback Mountain have been played by gay or bi actors? Or are we okay with Heath and Jake.
There is no difference between porn and regular movies.

]]> By: sors https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8027 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8027 brilliant article. Brilliant article.

A man having sex with a man is gay.
A man having sex with a women is hetero
A woman having sex with a women is lesbian and hence a man/woman having sex with all of the above is bi-sexual.

Your lifestyle and circle of friends does not determine your orientation. We all know at least one gay with hidiuos taste in decor and straight men with a lifestyle to die for.

We also all know a gay guy with more straight friends than gay and a straight guy with gay friends.

Your sexual classification (so apartheid) comes from whom you choose to shag (be it for money or not). Hence gay-for-pay is either gay or bi. And hell yea if some of us have a fanatcy to see “straight” guys with gay guys, and if the media can market it properly, then why not?

They can obviously not admit on TV that they are gay, because then half their market will dissapear.

In conclusion: gay and bi guys market themselves as straight to earn a living. If it turns you on – go for it. If it does not turn you on, then go and buy a dvd where the manjuice is 100% gay.

]]> By: blkcurrent https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8026 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8026 somewhat true!. well, darlings; i do not see how a “straight-on-gay” fantasy is a reflection of homophobia/ self-loathing! a fantasy is a fantasy and whoever chooses to capitalize on such- well, great going! same goes for S&M; does that mean the saddist loathes themself- or is it a pure fantasy?

It’s the same as the “straight-acting” fascination that many gay people have… is this a reflection of self-loathing? not necessarily…

however- it becomes an issue if one is obssessed with the rediculous notion of leading a hetero-life with gay benefits and still subscribe to the straight-label… and again, this is the new craze amongst gay men!
De-gaying is sooo yester-century, can we move on and leave medieval-esque behaviour where it belongs?! and enjoy our gorgeous colourful people without hetero-acting labels- or LABELS, period (not everyting needs to be classified by a board of over-learned eager-“people that work in the field of sexual health”)

]]> By: Jaco https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8024 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/01/28/the-gay-for-pay-backlash/#comment-8024 True true true. Confucius says: ” If a man has sex with another man, they are gay or bi or a combination of both.”
Period

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