Comments on: MONOGAMOUS EVER AFTER?

By: CyberBokkie

CyberBokkie — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

OMG!. Lets all start defining words like Monogamy and bend it to mean what we want it to mean…we can all call ourselves Monogamous then, even if there is a 3rd party involved …. It is a sad day in Gay history if we start thinkiing like that.

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Piss off….. It is not possible to accept that we as a society is willing to accept this kind of bull shit! Why are you in a relationship if you can not keep you cock in your pants? Why even bother – join the sex addict club and or the porn addict club or any of the other clubs as a single person so that you may induldge in all you sexual needs as much as you can and want! We would like to have same sex marriges – partnerships, but we can not even stay together without wanting to open the relationship up – what is that all about?

I am not making excusing and if I do sound judgemental, then so be it! I think it is time we stand up for the moral fibre of our gay community !

People say thing to make themselves feel better – you are no better than the Christian Bible Bashers who take thing out of context – you are doing the same – changing the meaning of things to suit your needs!

Who is this Joe Kort? Psychotherapist sayin that it is ok to fuck around in a relationship as long as you have rules! What is the point mister psychotherpist and coach!

By: reader

reader — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

why!!!. Why do you quote a USA shrink when we have similar shrinks/experts right here in SA? Is USA always better?

By: JJ

JJ — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

In reply to aa.

We?. The “we” you refer to is very general – as this is not the case in my (nor any of my gay friend’s) lives … our lives do not revolve around SEX …is but a small part of OUR bigger picture !

By: aa

aa — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

In reply to Comeau. Pretty sad!. Maybe the reason our lives (physical, emotional, mental) revolve around sex is because we have accepted sexual addiction as something normal, and we won't stop doing this until we find ways to end the addiction.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

In reply to User?. Makes sense!. I totally agree!

By: Jaco

Jaco — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

In reply to Comeau. Monogamy. Perhaps gay guys think with their penises, perhaps they are just more aware of their sexuality. Where does one draw the line?

By: Comeau

Comeau — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

In reply to User?. Sigh.... Why does everything in the gay world have to revolve around sex all the time? Why do gay couples HAVE to by different because they're gay? It's near-impossible to find a proper gay couple these days who aren't sleeping with every second person they can find (together...as if that makes it much different) and what-not.

It makes me sick that gay relationships are so often sex-based. Thinking with one's penis leads to this I guess.

By: User?

User? — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Say What?. I firmly believe that people should be able to make their own choices in life and for this reason I respect couples who are in open relationships.

However I don't understand the reason why these people are in a relationship to begin with. Why? I mean we all have family and friends for our needs of emotional support and company. The only thing that makes a boyfriend/girlfriend different is monogamy. Sex is the only activity that can be between just the two of you.

If one is not in a monogamous relationship, shouldn't he/she just be single and date/sleep with multiple partners? Wouldn't that be easier? Please, understand that I'm not trying to judge. I'm just trying to comprehend this whole thing.

By: Chris

Chris — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Where Do You Draw The Line. I love my boyfriend and he me. Why have a relationship if you want to introduce another into it. If that is how you feel, then be single and mix it up out there.

Some couples say it works for them. I just think it's couples giving each other the option to cheat within their relationship.

Anon and Cyber Bokkie, I agree with you.