Comments on: SEXUAL HEALING https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/07/20/sexual-healing/ South Africa's leading LGBTQ news and community platform Mon, 20 Jul 2009 22:00:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Anon https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/07/20/sexual-healing/#comment-8894 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/07/20/sexual-healing/#comment-8894 Very happy to see this!. I think that many gay guys are finaly realising that sex for sex’s sake with every Tom, Dick and Harry is self-destructive. You can have a high sex-drive, but you have to be faithful to one person and use that drive constructiveley: to build a solid relationship where your guy knows he is not only number one amomg many others, but the only one.

For many years I used to have sex several times a week with different guys. I was hooked and even had sex with them when I didn’t feel like it. Addiction to sex is real and it nearly cost me my life on several occasions, and being cought watching porn at work – very embarrassing (luckily I was allowed to keep my job). I am so glad to see that this issue is finally being addressed. It can save your life (AIDS is real), your livelihood and your relationship with your loved one.

The euphoria and sexual “liberation” that came from GLBT rights is dying down as we realise that traditional values of truth, faithfulness, trust, monogamy, sexual restraint before commitment… are beginning to make sense to us.

]]> By: Neil https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/07/20/sexual-healing/#comment-8914 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/07/20/sexual-healing/#comment-8914 Caution. I started reading this with enthusiasm but by the time I got to the end I felt really pissed of – this guy starts off writing about a valid issue but then degenerates into very blatant marketing of one specific clinic or facility! Surely advertisers need to PAY or at least have a banner ad? And not betray me into reading an article that simply promotes themselves? And yes, let’s face it – these rehab centres and services are just ANOTHER BUSINESS, they compete with each other and quite honestly I just get pissed off at this manipulative article! Question: in what way is the writer of this article linked to the Harmony Clinic he’s promoting here?

]]> By: __!__ https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/07/20/sexual-healing/#comment-8915 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/07/20/sexual-healing/#comment-8915 In reply to Neil.

addictions. i like what u said – the addictions “bizniz” – and now they trying to make bucks from the pink community – a sad but real bizniz strategy – no ways in hell is this anything but bizniz, pure marketing, knowing we queer community is easy targets for what they trying to sell, like the church is also nothing but bizniz – the bizniz of souls xcpet here its the bucks that count with a bit of spin about ‘fellowship’ thrown into the mix to make it sound sweet

makes u think and it aint a pretty picture

]]> By: Paul https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/07/20/sexual-healing/#comment-8959 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/07/20/sexual-healing/#comment-8959 Keep your cock in your pants!. Sexual addict smaddict… what a load of bull shit! Gya boys are so into sex and they can’t keep their cocks in their pants – additction or not! I am so tired of people – society trying to talk about these things as if they are normal and acceptable! It is not! There are not more traditional values – people claim to have – if the do not have sex, then they are addictive to porn, if it is not porn then it is somethign else. I am just so sick of having to accept all of this as the truth! Get real and get a live! There is no excuse and drug is not one of them…. I can not belief that you could have sex with several people on one night and not know who fucked you becuase you lost yourself in drugs and lust! I think it is time for the gay community to grow up and to accpect responsibility! The only people they are hurting are the ones who deeply love them… but then again if somebody shows you why they (not ell you), but shows you, then belief them! The will never change and will never be able to keep their cocks in their pants!

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