Comments on: GAY, SINGLE AND LOVING IT https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/ South Africa's leading LGBTQ news and community platform Wed, 05 Aug 2009 22:00:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: whoami https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-9059 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-9059 Single and confused. I’m single yet long for a relationship, yet enjoy the freedom.

]]> By: bad1 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8999 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8999 Being single. Eye opener!!…good for the soul

]]> By: Michael https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8997 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8997 Single. I love my bf. We met when both of us least expected it. The thing is he feels we rushed things and he now wants to go back to the single life, to explore his options more before he settles down with me. I never enjoyed being single. I know who I am with a man and without a man, I was nevert one who needed to “find” myself. Do I let him go. Does his wanting to go back into singledom mean he never was ready for us to begin with.

]]> By: Barney https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8994 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8994 Absolutely true. I don’t need to be in a relationship to feel fulfilled, content and happy. But I prefer to be in one for the other bits. You know, cuddling, shagging, sharing… Meaningless tumbles lose their attraction after a while.

]]> By: Gareth https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8993 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8993 Brilliant. What a brilliant and true article. Your life is ALWAYS exactly what YOU make of it.
I have been in a relationship for the past 4 years and married for one of them, and I am truely happy, and wouldn’t want to change anything.
But if it wasn’t for my “single time” before this, I would have never been ready to commit completely like I have, and I am talking out of experience.

I made the mistake of jumping right into a relationship after I came out years ago. After 3 years, I was more lost than ever, not knowing who I was and what I wanted, feeling smothered and confused. So I ended it, and did exactly what this article suggests. I explored myself, my sexuality, my wants and needs, etc etc, and grew extremely quick. I LOVED being single. It was so much fun.

And then, without me looking or even wanting a relationship, this gorgeous man walked into my life, and for the first time I was really ready, and I haven’t looked back once since then.

]]> By: blueangel_sm21 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8992 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8992 being single. Being new to the single life after 2 years of love, i find this article truly revelating and uplifting.

It helped me put into perspective a new and happier theory of my single status.

I want to embrace this time in my life and enjoy everything and anything i want.

I’m embracing a new and exciting journey, whatever it maybe… I know it’s going to be fun and ultra fabulous.

xs

]]> By: Brody https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8991 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8991 Just what I needed. I just found out that my best friend (who I’ve always had feelings for) is now dating one of our mutual friends. I was crushed but this article has helped lift my spirits a bit. Thank you!

]]> By: Frankie https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8989 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8989 where the f@#$ do people get all this kak!!

]]> By: jockey https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8988 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8988 wot a load of bollocks!!

]]> By: AnnaKarenina https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8987 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2009/08/05/gay-single-and-loving-it/#comment-8987 Single. Pop psych meets queer commodification? LOL!

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