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		By: Jaco		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jaco]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.mambaonline.com/2010/11/22/warning-about-ex-gay-group/#comment-11093&quot;&gt;Pierre&lt;/a&gt;.

May I say that Andre was my counselor and has helped me more to understand and respect myself than any other human being.  He is a great man and taught me accept and love myself - something I could never do.  The focus of his counseling is not on homosexuality at all but on unconditional love, personal boundaries and self respect.  Please acknowledge that there are people who have gay feelings but don&#039;t want to live a gay life.  It is our right to make that choice.  Concerning the comment that this kind of therapy leads to suicide I can testify to the exact opposite.  I was almost suicidal and today I am happy again.  Some of these comments just goes to show that the people who wrote them have very little experience of the love of God and are very judgmental of that which they haven&#039;t experienced.  I challenge any of you to make an appointment with Andre. Tell him to council you without mentioning your homosexuality once and without attempting to change it.  Open your hart to him and see what happens.  Then come back here and see if your conscience will allow you to say such ugly things about you.  May God bless you dearly.  In Jesus Mighty Name.&lt;br&gt;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>In reply to <a href="https://www.mambaonline.com/2010/11/22/warning-about-ex-gay-group/#comment-11093">Pierre</a>.</p>
<p>May I say that Andre was my counselor and has helped me more to understand and respect myself than any other human being.  He is a great man and taught me accept and love myself &#8211; something I could never do.  The focus of his counseling is not on homosexuality at all but on unconditional love, personal boundaries and self respect.  Please acknowledge that there are people who have gay feelings but don&#8217;t want to live a gay life.  It is our right to make that choice.  Concerning the comment that this kind of therapy leads to suicide I can testify to the exact opposite.  I was almost suicidal and today I am happy again.  Some of these comments just goes to show that the people who wrote them have very little experience of the love of God and are very judgmental of that which they haven&#8217;t experienced.  I challenge any of you to make an appointment with Andre. Tell him to council you without mentioning your homosexuality once and without attempting to change it.  Open your hart to him and see what happens.  Then come back here and see if your conscience will allow you to say such ugly things about you.  May God bless you dearly.  In Jesus Mighty Name.</p>
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		By: Sneakyco		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Comedians!. &quot;Certified Sexual Reorientation Coach&quot; HAHAHA!! Brilliant!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>Comedians!. &#8220;Certified Sexual Reorientation Coach&#8221; HAHAHA!! Brilliant!!</p>
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		By: 4-NIK-8-TOR		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[4-NIK-8-TOR]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Beevis &#038; Butthead. My my, what a lovely couple; our very own Sakkie &#038; Sally De Kock. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;What would posses anyone of sound frame and mind to meander to that delightful little shit hole (No offence to those living in the &#8220;far east&#8221;) for some sexual healing and homo-cure? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I had to slap myself silly, to awake from a hypnotic transition, having just stared at that crimplene shirt. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#146;m so blessed to have cretins like these, to permeate into my weekly perusal of my favourite homosexual lifestyle and news website so that I have to reach for my &#8220;Jeff Stryker&#8221; and endure invigorating moments of anal self gratification.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#146;ve taken great care to reproduce that enduring photograph for my S-crap book.&lt;br&gt;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>Beevis &amp; Butthead. My my, what a lovely couple; our very own Sakkie &amp; Sally De Kock. </p>
<p>What would posses anyone of sound frame and mind to meander to that delightful little shit hole (No offence to those living in the &ldquo;far east&rdquo;) for some sexual healing and homo-cure? </p>
<p>I had to slap myself silly, to awake from a hypnotic transition, having just stared at that crimplene shirt. </p>
<p>I&#146;m so blessed to have cretins like these, to permeate into my weekly perusal of my favourite homosexual lifestyle and news website so that I have to reach for my &ldquo;Jeff Stryker&rdquo; and endure invigorating moments of anal self gratification.</p>
<p>I&#146;ve taken great care to reproduce that enduring photograph for my S-crap book.</p>
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		By: Barney		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Disturbing. This is particularly disturbing when considered in the light of the increasingly radicalised opposition to homosexuality, whether here or elsewhere in Africa. Our South African government has time and again proven itself to be a false ally at the best of times, who regards the constitution and the protection of gay rights as an optional nice-to-have. When the damage these organisations cause are brought to light, will we have recourse to the courts? Will we receive support from the state? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This kind of therapy is also often sponsored by those same US organisations who have had a hand in the Kenyan, Ugandan and Malawian extreme responses to homosexuality in their home countries. Many of those organisations have now been officially classified as &#039;hate groups&#039; in the US. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I wonder: are they affiliated to any specific church?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>Disturbing. This is particularly disturbing when considered in the light of the increasingly radicalised opposition to homosexuality, whether here or elsewhere in Africa. Our South African government has time and again proven itself to be a false ally at the best of times, who regards the constitution and the protection of gay rights as an optional nice-to-have. When the damage these organisations cause are brought to light, will we have recourse to the courts? Will we receive support from the state? </p>
<p>This kind of therapy is also often sponsored by those same US organisations who have had a hand in the Kenyan, Ugandan and Malawian extreme responses to homosexuality in their home countries. Many of those organisations have now been officially classified as &#8216;hate groups&#8217; in the US. </p>
<p>I wonder: are they affiliated to any specific church?</p>
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		By: Tommy		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[..... What they need is a big hug (and a kick up the butt!) Judging from their pictures one can tell that they have lived their lives in denial for way too long now. Behind Andre&#039;s smile it is so obvious he is screaming out for help and Lina doesn&#039;t look comfortable at all having him touch her. It&#039;s such a pity that they have taken their self-hatred and projected into the LGBT community. Their faces clearly show years of regret, emotional abuse and a definite heartache to be who they were meant to be. But for some reason, be it outside pressure or religtion, they have chosen to deny themselves a wonderful life. They are just pathetic losers now who, for some unknown reason, see as it their duty to &quot;help&quot; gay men and women. Well, we don&#039;t need it. Never will. So pack your bags for Uganda ... I&#039;m sure that dumbass government there will welcome you. &lt;br&gt;Oh, as for the cause of same-sex attaction being &quot;unloved childhood wounds and unmet love needs....&quot; what a load of BS. My parents were nothing but loving and supportive of me. My parents love me unconditionally. I was deprived of nothing, emotionally or otherwise. These crackpots should be deported to a little island where they can confront their own &quot;unmet love needs&quot; as it&#039;s clear their parents didn&#039;t love them at all (and who can blame them?!)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>&#8230;.. What they need is a big hug (and a kick up the butt!) Judging from their pictures one can tell that they have lived their lives in denial for way too long now. Behind Andre&#8217;s smile it is so obvious he is screaming out for help and Lina doesn&#8217;t look comfortable at all having him touch her. It&#8217;s such a pity that they have taken their self-hatred and projected into the LGBT community. Their faces clearly show years of regret, emotional abuse and a definite heartache to be who they were meant to be. But for some reason, be it outside pressure or religtion, they have chosen to deny themselves a wonderful life. They are just pathetic losers now who, for some unknown reason, see as it their duty to &#8220;help&#8221; gay men and women. Well, we don&#8217;t need it. Never will. So pack your bags for Uganda &#8230; I&#8217;m sure that dumbass government there will welcome you. <br />Oh, as for the cause of same-sex attaction being &#8220;unloved childhood wounds and unmet love needs&#8230;.&#8221; what a load of BS. My parents were nothing but loving and supportive of me. My parents love me unconditionally. I was deprived of nothing, emotionally or otherwise. These crackpots should be deported to a little island where they can confront their own &#8220;unmet love needs&#8221; as it&#8217;s clear their parents didn&#8217;t love them at all (and who can blame them?!)</p>
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		By: Me		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Me]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[LMFAO. Maybe what they need is an influx of cries for help from the gay community - pretending to want to turn straight - so much so that they wont know who thier real &quot;patients&quot; are.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Would love to go for their &quot;therapy&quot; and prove to them that I&#039;m incureable. Imagine calling them up the next day and saying &quot;I don&#039;t think the therapy&#039;s working Doctor Bekker, I f*cked a guy AGAIN last night - what, oh what do I do now?&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;Certified Sexual Reorientation Coach&quot; - would love to know what kind of studying is involved in obtaining this status.  Wonder if there is now some or other diploma on how to be straight? Which university? Can you buy it online?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;:-P]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>LMFAO. Maybe what they need is an influx of cries for help from the gay community &#8211; pretending to want to turn straight &#8211; so much so that they wont know who thier real &#8220;patients&#8221; are.</p>
<p>Would love to go for their &#8220;therapy&#8221; and prove to them that I&#8217;m incureable. Imagine calling them up the next day and saying &#8220;I don&#8217;t think the therapy&#8217;s working Doctor Bekker, I f*cked a guy AGAIN last night &#8211; what, oh what do I do now?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Certified Sexual Reorientation Coach&#8221; &#8211; would love to know what kind of studying is involved in obtaining this status.  Wonder if there is now some or other diploma on how to be straight? Which university? Can you buy it online?</p>
<p>😛</p>
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		By: Xuan		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xuan]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[LOL. Nie eers al het MOSES met sy staf op my geslaan om die Gay uit my te kry sou dit werk nie....  Hierdie mense is belaglik en teer net op n bietjie onsekerheid wat in baie Gay mense is.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>LOL. Nie eers al het MOSES met sy staf op my geslaan om die Gay uit my te kry sou dit werk nie&#8230;.  Hierdie mense is belaglik en teer net op n bietjie onsekerheid wat in baie Gay mense is.</p>
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		By: Anonymous		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anonymous]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[Certified?. Love to know who certify this wackjob.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>Certified?. Love to know who certify this wackjob.</p>
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		By: Jacky		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jacky]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[Mondjie. met daai mondjie kan mens sommer sien hy laaaik piel daai ene ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>Mondjie. met daai mondjie kan mens sommer sien hy laaaik piel daai ene &#8230;</p>
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		By: 2qtbstr		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[come out the closet. the happy couple looks like the are both in denial who is fem and who is butch ??? LOL - what a lot of bull - leave 2qtbstr people alone and check out your own identity - open the closet door and climb out - the world is your oyster or cock a doodle doo or you can have both the choice is yours - so make that choice and make S.A. a beter place for us all]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>come out the closet. the happy couple looks like the are both in denial who is fem and who is butch ??? LOL &#8211; what a lot of bull &#8211; leave 2qtbstr people alone and check out your own identity &#8211; open the closet door and climb out &#8211; the world is your oyster or cock a doodle doo or you can have both the choice is yours &#8211; so make that choice and make S.A. a beter place for us all</p>
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