Comments on: Africa’s first traditional gay marriage ends in divorce

By: Athandwa

Athandwa — Tue, 05 Jan 2016 07:41:54 +0000

Guys, no matter what the problem may be to their relationship, I dont think that it has anything to do with us. Please lets me reminded that they are human and they re bound to have proble just like anyone else. They are not perfect so are we but the only thing that we need to know is that they are striving for perfection.

The only thing that we should do for them is to pray for them not throw water at their problems. One day it may be me or one of us here.

Lastly, I thing we should accept to what we are being told and live it there, whther they are lying to us or anything relevant, that is upto them.

By: mbaleki siyavuya

mbaleki siyavuya — Sat, 12 Sep 2015 14:45:37 +0000

It’s funny to those who think this was a way of seeking attention then why they give it? I may be homophobic even myself but no need to go in public about that except if I want to be noted for my feelings. Then it goes back to them as attention seekers.
In life we were all born and we will die but in the meantime we need to celebrate our survival by doing what will bring joy to ourselves as long no body’s space is invaded. Homophobic people use the LGBTI as a ground to express their anger towards their so called “opposite sex marriage”. I can’t say people must adapt in new changes as if this” homosexual” thing as if its new to our society but people need to change their attitude towards it as it is a person’s choice.
Serious matters to debate about except the issue of agreed two people. Pastors are also taking a negative part in it thou they are considered to be the source of light. They bring not clear reason to oppose it rather than showing their personal feelings. I myself give hands of applause to those who manage to live their life to the fullest without adjusting to suit the audience. Divorce is a part of marriage regardless of sexuality, so instead of being judgmental lets unite and fight against brake ups in relationships.

By: Paul Twala

Paul Twala — Mon, 31 Aug 2015 12:43:42 +0000

In reply to Rev Oscar Peter Bougardt. CHA UYAPHAPHA KODWA SHAME REV, lastaag, shut up if you don't have anything pos to say, this is a gay site, how you sneaked your way in here is a puzzling matter, unless you wana tell us something we don't know like maybe you do find "MEN "attractive too.

By: Paul Twala

Paul Twala — Mon, 31 Aug 2015 12:40:12 +0000

sad news indeed, @Rev Oscar Peter Bougardt I am not sure you are on the right site, this is#MAMBAONLINE, how you found your way here is puzzling to me and I am sure to the rest of us, unless ofcoz you are searching for happiness in the meet market, since there is none in your perfect “straight” life, uyaphapha stick to what you know, like preaching lies pretending to know God and what he requires of humans as if you and him have a conversation on a daily bases, and we will continue being what we are ” GAY”. U Lastaag Rev, waphapha, thanda izindaba zabantu. # UYAPHAPHAMANI.

By: Mandla

Mandla — Sun, 02 Aug 2015 21:37:11 +0000

I’m so dissapointed in these guys. They made a show off in public about their zulu culture gay wedding and now slap the zulu’s on their faces with a divorce. In Zulu culture there is no divorce. I’m disgusted!

By: Paul

Paul — Mon, 27 Jul 2015 05:15:08 +0000

Who cares ?

By: Trevor

Trevor — Fri, 24 Jul 2015 07:30:12 +0000

Sorry 4 u guys!

By: senzo dladla

senzo dladla — Wed, 22 Jul 2015 20:42:34 +0000

In reply to MArcus. Man you read my mind, there is just way more to to this storry, I have no symphathy for the guy who published the divorce decree along with that long composition of nuisance, that was petty, attention-seeking, and desperate.

By: AnonIan

AnonIan — Mon, 20 Jul 2015 09:15:08 +0000

I feel really sad for their divorce as for the rumours . . . There’s never smoke without fire.
I am deeply disappointed in them both though because their marriage “normalized” gay people in my (zulu) culture.
Now their divorce is only going to give homophobes especially in rigid cultures and cultures kind of ammunition to hold against as they firmly divorce is wrong.
It is hard enough to get people to accept the gays in black cultures without the few that get accepted go make huge media spectacles then fail at what they started. So many young kids are going to be trapped in closet once again because of this

By: Onalenna

Onalenna — Sun, 19 Jul 2015 21:38:07 +0000

srry for u guys