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		By: Ash		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ash]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jan 2017 16:14:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great article. Can definitely relate.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>Great article. Can definitely relate.</p>
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		By: Yogi		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Yogi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2016 21:09:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.mambaonline.com/2016/12/15/close-cigar-finding-intimacy-youre-newly-single/#comment-1028566&quot;&gt;sk&lt;/a&gt;.

It&#039;s been 3 years and much as I&#039;m &quot;over it&quot;, I keep reminding myself of the good times to override my sadness that it didn&#039;t last longer. Time really does heal. If I can offer advice, I&#039;d say be focussed and energetic about rekindling old friendships and starting new one&#039;s. I&#039;ve been a bit reclusive, which is not constructive at all. Good luck!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>In reply to <a href="https://www.mambaonline.com/2016/12/15/close-cigar-finding-intimacy-youre-newly-single/#comment-1028566">sk</a>.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s been 3 years and much as I&#8217;m &#8220;over it&#8221;, I keep reminding myself of the good times to override my sadness that it didn&#8217;t last longer. Time really does heal. If I can offer advice, I&#8217;d say be focussed and energetic about rekindling old friendships and starting new one&#8217;s. I&#8217;ve been a bit reclusive, which is not constructive at all. Good luck!</p>
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		By: sk		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2016 20:03:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I can relate to this article. I just broke up with my  boyfriend. The house feels eerily empty. It had to happen because we had disagreements every week. It was not healthy. Unlike my ex boyfriend, I also havent cultivated enough friendships to provide a support system. They say everything happens for a reason but I m struggling to find one at the moment. This too shall pass.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>I can relate to this article. I just broke up with my  boyfriend. The house feels eerily empty. It had to happen because we had disagreements every week. It was not healthy. Unlike my ex boyfriend, I also havent cultivated enough friendships to provide a support system. They say everything happens for a reason but I m struggling to find one at the moment. This too shall pass.</p>
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		By: Yogi		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Yogi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2016 20:43:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I could drop my own name into much of this article and it would fit to a &#039;T&#039;.  

Make me feel not so &quot;unique&quot;, not so &quot;doing -it-on-my-own&quot;.
Many Thanks]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ <p>I could drop my own name into much of this article and it would fit to a &#8216;T&#8217;.  </p>
<p>Make me feel not so &#8220;unique&#8221;, not so &#8220;doing -it-on-my-own&#8221;.<br />
Many Thanks</p>
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