Comments on: That time I wore a skirt… Then a tutu https://www.mambaonline.com/2017/01/10/time-wore-skirt-tutu-2/ South Africa's leading LGBTQ news and community platform Wed, 11 Jan 2017 07:06:32 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Mark de Clark https://www.mambaonline.com/2017/01/10/time-wore-skirt-tutu-2/#comment-1032421 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 07:06:32 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/?p=70651#comment-1032421 Awesome article! The most important think you said has to be “we think too much and feel too little…”. As a life coach this is something we deal with constantly. However, through my own experience of severe bouts of clinical depression, this statement was what became the turning point in my healing! I realised that I wasn’t feeling anything. I was so worried about what people thought and how they would see me, that I regressed deeper into a very dark place. My decision to stop worrying about what I couldn’t control, and focus on my own inner sociopath, as opposed to empath, led to a recovery.

Please stay true to yourself. Your authenticity will be what people value the most about you.

Love and light…

]]> By: Wayne https://www.mambaonline.com/2017/01/10/time-wore-skirt-tutu-2/#comment-1032395 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 00:35:35 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/?p=70651#comment-1032395 That’s what’s so great about being gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender, we are beautiful no matter how we present. Keep doing you! I have always found the most femme gay guy or non-passing trans* person are the ones who, unfortunately, take the beatings and hatred. But because of their bravery, they actually move freedom forward for everyone else… including those who hide behind rigid heterosexual gender stereotypes and roles.

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