one never sees them doing anything in the community.

do they go to events in support of gay causes? do they organise any events to bring awareness to things that affect the community like teenage suicide?
do they have fundraisers to support gay events like Pride or help older gay people or young gay people that have been evicted from their homes?
they never at any events or out there stopping crimes against lesbians.
when they do this then it might be something worthwhile.