Xander Flemming, Author at MambaOnline - LGBTQ South Africa online https://www.mambaonline.com/author/xander-flemming/ South Africa's leading LGBTQ news and community platform Fri, 01 Nov 2013 12:59:14 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 https://www.mambaonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/cropped-mamba_logo_output-32x32.png Xander Flemming, Author at MambaOnline - LGBTQ South Africa online https://www.mambaonline.com/author/xander-flemming/ 32 32 ASK MAMBA: TIRED OF BI DRAMA https://www.mambaonline.com/2013/10/24/ask-mamba-tired-of-being-bi/ https://www.mambaonline.com/2013/10/24/ask-mamba-tired-of-being-bi/#respond Thu, 24 Oct 2013 07:15:39 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/?p=34438 We’re super excited to welcome Xander, who has a Master’s Degree in Psychology and is a registered counselling psychologist, to Mambaonline as our resident advice columnist. WE DON’T HAVE ANAL SEX ANYMORE Dear Xander I have been with my partner for more than four years now, and we have been engaged for more than two […]

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]]> https://www.mambaonline.com/2013/10/24/ask-mamba-tired-of-being-bi/feed/ 0 MAKING SEX FUN AGAIN https://www.mambaonline.com/2012/08/20/making-sex-fun-again/ https://www.mambaonline.com/2012/08/20/making-sex-fun-again/#respond https://www.mambaonline.com/?p=13475 Has gay sex become so associated with stigma, morality, stereotyping, the dangers of HIV and safe sex messaging that we’ve lost the ability to enjoy it? It seems we’ve forgotten that sex between consenting adults is natural and fun.

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