Comments on: RECLAIMING MY GAYNESS https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/ South Africa's leading LGBTQ news and community platform Thu, 04 Sep 2008 22:00:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: babo https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-8211 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-8211 lm looking straight, but I’m gay. I went through your life story, and I’m really touched because some of the things you have mentioned are similar to mines. Especially when starting from your life at school, till you grown up. I grew up in a very street Christian family that is my family. I tried all, but the spirit of gay doesnt want to move away from me. Sometimes this kind of life stresses me. To be gay, I dont take it as somebody’s choice. May be others who are gay have turned themselves to gay life style, because they were willing to benefit something. I have accepted that, ”I AM GAY BY NATURE”.

I was born gay, but I’m looking straight. I try to hide, but spiritually or emotionally I fail to hide. Those who are intelligence they catch me.

Any way thanx for sharing such touching article. I’m really touched. Those who are taking chances in this life, can change now.

]]> By: Dvine99 https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7314 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7314 sneezy……. I think you need to brush on your understanding of the english language…….this is no cry out for acceptance.

Dont you get that he has spoken out about something that torments gay men every day? And he has gotten over something that seemed insurmountable before??

This is no plea for acceptance, it is more of a revelation in life, a time when you realise how things are and how you (all of us) fit into that, not how people want us to fit into that.

An excellent, upbuilding and inspiring read.

]]> By: hey https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7313 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7313 In reply to thulani.

but wen you have spent years praying for doing a normal family… when can you decide to give up your prayers?

]]> By: thulani https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7312 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7312 That”s the truth!!!!. Thanks for sharing the light especially for those who are underpressure from family, society and the work place….

Atleast you free and you opt to live your life…”God loves us all”…

god bless you always!

]]> By: Pauly https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7311 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7311 Thank you. Thank you so much for letting others read your story and use it as an example of that we must always be true to ourselves no and be our happy in our lives first and others 2nd. Fantastic read!!

]]> By: paul https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7306 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7306 In reply to sneezy.

get a life sneezy

]]> By: SebastianJ https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7304 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7304 In reply to Team.

Retort. Gayness is tangible. Deal with it! Using the vagueness of purported spirituality and an all forgiving deity to gloss over personal inadequacies helps no one.

]]> By: Team https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7301 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7301 In reply to SebastianJ.

exactly. It has been seen before, over and over again. That is why its important to speak out about being gay and being a christian. Good on you for speaking out about something so many struggle with.

]]> By: SebastianJ https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7300 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7300 Really?. Christianity as a crutch… seen it all before!

]]> By: MartinR https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7299 Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/2008/09/04/reclaiming-my-gayness/#comment-7299 Handshake!. My path was quite similar to Clive”s, so I can identify with a lot of what he says. Thanks for speaking up. There are a lot of other guys and girls in the same situation.

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