Comments on: IN DEFENCE OF BOTTOMS

By: Gizmo

Gizmo — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Yes.... I really enjoyed the article, think it is some thing allot of gay guys struggle with and it is ridicules, but once again this is what general assumption has done to us as people.
We are more concerned about what people would think of us, instead of doing what makes us happy.
But I don’t not believe taking it up the ass means you’re a lesser person, if that makes you happy, be happy. Don’t worry what other people think.
“I am what I am!”

By: jp

jp — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

just. really well written. bum fucking will save us all! Love it!

J.

By: beanearb4

beanearb4 — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Confused…. I don’t get this whole “TOP”, “BOTTOM” thing. I loooove men. They’re just so manly, mischievous, self-aware, and the anatomy so much more appealing than women, who are overly concerned with things and emotion. Uurgh! So, that makes me gay. I still like to fuck, like any man out there and soon discovered the pleasure of being fucked too. Jippee! I can have it both ways and love either. I don’t want to be restricted to any traditional roles. And men who are just “TOP” have just not discovered that the discomfort goes away and that “nothing compares, nothing compares! (sung at the top of my lungs as I’m dancing down the passage)”. Maybe I’m just as screwed *Ooops, politically incorrect statement if the writer’s comments are anything to go by* as everyone else…

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

In reply to mthokozi. -. That's simple. That can be called cheating.

By: oreo

oreo — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

this article is incomplete! P2 plz!

By: User?

User? — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

The Truth is.... It all comes down to internal-homophobia. I think the biggest problem other than straight people oppressing gays is gays oppressing fellow gays. There are a lot of queers out there who hate effeminate / camp gays (even the camp ones hate fellow campers) and they associate being a bottom with camp.

I love the effeminate homos, damn it - I'm a bit effeminate myself! Let's be honest, it's the camp homo that started the gay liberation. It's the camp homo who isn't afraid to shout: I'm queer and I'm here, get used to it!

It's the 'girlie boys' that are flying the rainbow flag high. You might think that camp guys are weak but I think they are courageous.

There is nothing wrong with being masculine but there is everything wrong with 'straight acting' and if you'ever used that phrase to describe yourself, I suggest you sit in a corner and ask yourself why do you hate you so much?

By: 2qtbstr

2qtbstr — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

bums. pleasure – as long as we both cum – we are happy – are we not ?

By: anon

anon — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

In reply to beanearb4. re. Well put.....you go gitl!

By: hein

hein — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

In reply to Anonymous. Oooo. Ooooooooo lawwwd!! BITCH FIIIIIGHT!!

By: newhope83

newhope83 — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Roles vs pleasure&respect. Now really,when both u&ur sexual partner orgasim. Are roles still that important?...
I don't think so cause by then you both let go&just be to mutually enjoy each others pleasure.

I love receiving it&don't feel any lessor than a human being,cause I'm being true to myself that is what matters more to me than whaty the next person perceives.
So people who are closed minded&not understanding&respectful,cook up this clueless&misleading notions&ill treatment of fellow beings.
So just be assertive&be truthful to yourself than waste your energy stressing on unclued up people.

As for guys who are top and regard being such as empowered&dominant, then they DON'T GET IT shame.
Respect&appreciation of the next person than power play are more crucial.After all sex roles are not the be and end all of everything!
There are other aspects of ourselves than sex that anyone of us can dominate.

Ayoba!