relationships Archives - MambaOnline - LGBTQ South Africa online https://www.mambaonline.com/tag/relationships/ South Africa's leading LGBTQ news and community platform Mon, 11 Jun 2018 18:05:31 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 https://www.mambaonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/cropped-mamba_logo_output-32x32.png relationships Archives - MambaOnline - LGBTQ South Africa online https://www.mambaonline.com/tag/relationships/ 32 32 Gay relationships | My pleasure, as a bottom, matters https://www.mambaonline.com/2018/06/11/my-pleasure-as-a-bottom-matters/ https://www.mambaonline.com/2018/06/11/my-pleasure-as-a-bottom-matters/#comments Mon, 11 Jun 2018 17:25:31 +0000 https://www.mambaonline.com/?p=84514 “I am here, and my pleasure matters.” Motlatsi Motseoile explores the intricacies of sex in gay relationships, and how being a bottom is often mired in shame and ridicule. We live in a hyper-masculine and patriarchal society, often framed by the cisgender-heterosexual man. Anything that is thought to emulate the behaviour of women, even in […]

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