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I’ve been wondering about chemsex lately…:
For many in our community, sex and substance use are closely linked. In this article, anonymous opens up about his experience with chemsex.
How to prioritise your mental wellbeing during the pandemic:
Our mental wellbeing has taken a knock during the pandemic. Here are some tips to incorporate into our daily lives to help keep our boats afloat amid the storm.
Becoming Yaya Mavundla:
Outspoken transgender activist and reality star Yaya Mavundla expresses controversial views on LGBTIQ+ activism and classism in the community.
Dating | Is there a right way to break up?:
Beginnings and endings are a central part of life but the end of romance can be difficult for all involved. Here are some tips on breaking up well.
How ‘allyship’ can make LGBT+ staff feel less excluded in the work place:
Much more needs to be done to protect and support LGBT+ staff within the workplace, where many continue to face discrimination and exclusion.
Photos | Vigil for fallen LGBTIQ+ hate victims:
The LGBTIQ+ community gathered at Johannesburg's Constitution Hill on Wednesday night for a candlelight vigil to honour the victims of hate.
Here are 20 unusual euphemisms for masturbation:
International Masturbation Day is celebrated on 28 May each year. Here are 20 euphemisms you've probably never heard before!
Photos | Mr Gay World South Africa 2021:
Eleven contestants competed for the Mr Gay World South Africa 2021 title in Sandton, Johannesburg on Friday night. Here are all the photos.
Motlatsi Motseoile | What does IDAHOBIT mean to me?:
As we mark IDAHOBIT, the past few weeks have been filled with trauma and conversations about our safety as queer people in South Africa.
I’m exploring my sexuality | Moonchild Sanelly:
She wowed Beyoncé and is on a mission of sexual liberation. Moonchild Sanelly talks to MambaOnline about her queerness, Brenda Fassie and so much more.
“Unmute Yourself” – An open letter to SA church leaders on LGBTIQ+ pain:
A group of church members have written a letter to SA's church leaders admonishing them for their silence amid ongoing LGBTIQ+ suffering.
Anzio Jacobs | No cause for celebration, we are not all free:
Anzio Jacobs writes that actions like Monday's LGBTQIA+ hate crimes protest need to be fueled by a willingness for ALL of us to participate.
Siya Khumalo | LGBTI People Are Already Being Killed Over B-BBEE — But Do We Realize This?:
Corruption and the murders of LGBTI people are connected and can be addressed using B-BBEE to challenge hegemonic power, writes Siya Khumalo.
Opinion | Would I be me, if I wasn’t gay?:
Motlatsi Motseoile writes about how being gay left him with no choice but to be excellent so as to be heard, respected and afforded the space to exist.
Siya Khumalo | 5 Reasons B-BBEE legislation should incentivise LGBTI inclusion and visibility:
Siya Khumalo asks if the resurgence of hate crimes calls for LGBTI inclusion into legislation like Employment Equity and Skills Development.
Photos | Vogue Nights Jozi – The Extravaganza Ball:
Jozi's queer party scene burst back into life with Vogue Nights Jozi - The Extravaganza Ball, brought to us by Lelowhatsgood and Tutu Zondo.
Trans Day of Visibility offers chance for community to stand in solidarity and support:
Visibility within the transgender community is often a Catch-22, especially for trans people of color, or those living in rural areas.
Trans Day of Visibility | SA government blocking trans recognition & visibility:
It's the 12th Trans Day of Visibility but discriminatory government policies continue to deny transgender South Africans their identity.
Men’s Underwear: Making a splash with Modus Vivendi:
Modus Vivendi is back with a hot new photoshoot for their Back T line, featuring two stunning male models and lots of sticky white paint.
What is your romantic orientation?:
Have you ever thought about your romantic orientation? And nope, it’s not always the same as the sexual orientation you identify with.