WHY GAY MEN STRIVE TO STAY THIN
A study has concluded that gay men and heterosexual women are driven to stay thin out of a desire to stay sexually competitive.
The research, headed by Singapore Management University’s Norman Li, sought to test the belief that “restrictive eating attitudes and behaviours” are related to mating desirability and revolve around appearing thinner.
The researchers showed pictures of high-status but similarly attractive same-sex individuals to over 800 people in Texas.
They discovered that among gay men and heterosexual women this tended to lead to greater body image dissatisfaction and more restrictive eating attitudes.
Interestingly, the people depicted in the pictures were not overly thin, but the pictures nevertheless still led to a desire to reduce the viewer’s weight.
According to Li, the focus on weight may be related to the fact that – especially in the West – individuals tend gain weight as they age, thus leading people to equate weight with aging.
He also said that our fascination with looking at magazines and media featuring attractive people could have an evolutionary basis related to our ancestor’s need to be aware of the appearance of their competitors for mates.
“Fashion models, celebrities and television characters are not actually our peers,” Li told New Scientist, noting that, “Their presence makes us look to standards that are largely unattainable or ultimately harmful.”
The researcher were, however, unable to account for the fact that heterosexual men and lesbian women were not significantly influenced by the images that they were shown.
Or maybe it’s just coz they’re really vain. Just a thought…
staying slim. It takes hard work to get laid
You are all victims of your own vanity. Oh the bitter irony of it all…
McGee. and I presume you dont own a reflecting glass in your fair domain.
Touche. Touche my friend, touche…
Touch?. Tits
You were lambasting the effort of being pretty to start off with. Beauty is a multi-billion dollar industry which you snub. Get real and get those Tits in the gym dahling.
Real beauty is skin deep. And when your looks fade and your abs turn to flab…
what will there be left to love?
Real Beauty. Come on Tits stop the dispensing of boring clich?s
Many beautiful people like myself have awesome personalities and intellect and hobbies and money and power. Yes looks might fade but there is gymming, slimming and botox; hunnybun. One must at least try and look good for a loved one?
Boring cliches? Gasp!. There is a fine line between “looking good for your loved one” and “being really really vain”…
And gay guys are usually on the latter…
You need to get a life. Tits
Being vain and self-centred is part of our makings as gay people. Down to earth is boring (like using cliches)
Being slim to attract sexual partners is like a David Attenborough documentary. It happens that the more attractive of the sex gets the sex. A little effort goes a long way…
You may say that I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one. Society is socially constructed, and therefore gay men have enslaved themselves in this vicious hell of always having to “look good”. You have all become victims of your own vanity- a never-ending hamster-wheel of getting dressed up, going to clubs, meaningless short-lived relationships and one-night stands, and constantly bitching about being alone…
Gay guys are always whining about wanting to find a “decent guy” and be in a “proper relationship”, and yet all you seem to care about is what you look like…Hmmmmm….seems a bit self-defeating to me.
Perhaps if you want to have more you have to be more…
Just a thought.
Wakey wakey beautiful dreamerll. Yes your romantic notions of the perfect relationship has worked well for you. I cling to that dream like others cling to Vawter or the next sniff/whatever but I have come to know as a 31 year old man it aint gonna happen. Me being awake seeing the shortcomings and trappings will allow me to get the man, you will all ways have hand lotion and BelAmi DVDs.
No response?. Must have deflated the Tits.
You must b really ugly, to say beauty is skin deep.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m totally hot.
I’m just really deep as well…
HOT- I think NOT. Tits you are then complaining about nothing
Skin deep beauty. That was really very good