WHERE TO FOR CAPE TOWN PRIDE?
At a meeting on 12 April convened by Ikasi Pride, members of a divided gay and lesbian community discussed the future of gay pride in the city, its steady depoliticisation, its lack of community outreach and its image problem.
Ikasi Pride’s stated aim was “to discuss amongst ourselves as the [gay and lesbian] community, ways in which we can create a Pride event that represents the diversity within Cape Town, and collectively address the issues faced by all [gay and lesbian] people.”
Ikasi, together with many in the community, feel that Pride should be far more inclusive, promote HIV/Aids awareness, safe sex awareness, reach out to the rest of Africa (where gay people were being persecuted and some had come to the Mother City for refuge), and also be an event to promote gay and lesbian film, art and literature.
Although the 35 people who gathered at 6 Spin Street on a hot Saturday afternoon had sharply divergent views on what the annual gay pride celebration should be about, discussions were conducted with a great deal of restraint.
Sivu Onesipho Siwisa, who facilitated the meeting, opened by clarifying that Ikasi didn’t organise Pride events and marches, but sought through its influence and mediation to restore the essence of pride in rural and township areas specifically.
In his opening comments Matthew van As of Cape Town Pride spoke about the event as “a celebratory festival”. He complained about apathy in the community and a lack of volunteerism. He also said that every year he felt he was being “crucified” by the criticism levelled at the event.
As people spoke from the floor, it became quickly clear that Van As held a minority view. With the best of intentions he appeared to be clueless about the broader dimensions and significance of the event. The members of the community who had gathered were by no means a lynch mob, but they were there to express their displeasure with the current image of the event. But here was amiable Van As welcoming them for coming and telling them he was going to hold every one of them accountable to work voluntarily for the next event.
He also told the community that the constitution for Pride was being rewritten by “lawyers at UCT”.
The point was quickly made from the floor that transparency and accountability to the community were missing from Pride, and that volunteer apathy was because people didn’t feel that had a stake in, never mind ownership, of the event, and that the event had an exclusionary white, male image.
Pride was never a mere celebration, it has always been political; it has always been about visibility and claiming space.
One response, articulated by religious practitioner Laurie Gaum, was that, “If black lesbians are being killed and raped then I as a gay person am suffering and I must get involved”.
If the Pride event doesn’t have a collective vision and mission, if it is about nothing more than a Mardi Gras style celebratory parade, then it might as well be handed over to an events organisation.
Funeke Soldaat of Free Gender said her organisation wanted Cape Town Pride to be about advocacy in the communities. Pride events should be held elsewhere, in the townships and on the Cape Flats, and these events should be part of the ten days of Pride, organised by the same committee as the City parade and not relegated to the side-lines.
Currently, Khumbulani Pride which happens in Mitchell’s Plain on 18 May is a small tab on the Pride website with no date and no practical information. Van As said R10,000 had been given to the event by Pride.
There was also dissatisfaction with the Pride march itself, a “mere 15 minutes of walking” in the Green Point / Waterkant “gay village” and not in the centre of the City.
In Pride’s defence, Van As said, “The City of Cape Town itself has been our biggest obstacle this year”. According to him, the City changed the route at the last minute “due to another function”.
Other members of the organising committee from previous years also said they had found the City to be obstructionist and uncommunicative, and the issuing of permits bungled.
What emerged from the discussion was that the problems facing Pride, especially that of a community that is not united, were a microcosm of problems facing South Africa generally. A vision was needed behind which individuals and organisations could rally.
More than one speaker felt that NGOs that worked with the community should be represented on the board entrusted with Pride.
The meeting ended with the resolve to have a broadly inclusive, transparent, public meeting to rewrite the constitution for Pride and revise the event. This will happen on 10 May at 6 Spin Street.
Source: GroundUp
So they want more inclusivity, to promote healthy lifestyles, solidarity with our brothers and sisters who are persecuted for being gay, to promote gay people’s contributions to culture, to promote volunteerism, to extend pride to peripheral communities… The rest of the complaints are logistical issues. To be honest, I don’t see how anyone in their right mind could disagree with these proposals. However, I wonder if we are expecting too much from Pride, a once a year event. In my mind, Pride should be something similar to a “Rand Show” of all things Gay. An event where all groups, lobbies, businesses and gay and gay friendly organizations can have their say and show everyone what they do. This is not done by marching for a few minutes in bright coloured attire and then eating a boerie roll and listening to a few bands for entertainment, all this crowned with an evening trip to a gay bar or club or sauna. I am not saying that celebrating what the older generation did to get us our freedom has no place. What I am saying is that maybe we are celebrating too soon. Just because we are protected on paper, doesn’t mean we can now live our lives as carefree and loved by society as our heterosexual brothers and sisters. Pride has to be a show of what is being done during the rest of the year to make us fully accepted, protected and loved by the rest of the population. Reducing Pride to a celebration is like premature ejaculation: It is too soon, it is not making everyone happy and someone is going to feel left out.
Oh my God here we go again. Exactly what happened in Joburg, people feeling marginalised and in VICTIM mode. As a result we had I think 3 Pride celebrations that separated everybody and achieved the very opposite as a result of all the little VICTIMS who were not being noticed or represented. Well darlings it’s amazing how all the little marginalised VICTIMS sit on their arses all day a bitch about the state of affairs but have done nothing for GAY PRIDE. It’s also amazing how the people who have tirelessly worked to bring an annual celebration event get persecuted and now have to include this vermon who are lazy and non contributary. I am so tired of this country and all it’s issues. People are so clouded and introspective that they have no ability to see the big picture or the wood for the trees so to say. Gay Pride is a celebration of the one simple thing being GAY. That’s it!!! It ends there. A day, event or place to get together and have a party. It’s not a political rally!!! or a forum to air issues with VICTIMS. The Pride is all encumbasing. So participate and enjoy. If you have nothing to add of any value stay at home and don’t bring your little VICTIM issues to the party. We have lost total sight of it all an sweat the small stuff. Put your egos away and be thankful for the people who are putting on an event and fought the fight for many years. At the end of the day it’s about PARTICIPATION not REPRESENTATION. Just remember that heteros and the greater public see us as one the GAYS and not a whole lot of fragmented groups. What a load of shit. GET OVER YOURSELVES little VICTIMS. Goodbye