Author Archive

Men’s health | Morning hard-ons – What’s that about?: Pitching-a-tent, morning wood, ‘n pishoring or ukuvukelwa; whatever you call
Opinion: Objectifying Yourself? Sexual Object vs Sentient Being (or both?): If you enjoy hookups and no-strings-attached sex with strangers,
Opinion: Let’s not be “sies”- gender: As a teenager, I often presented as a girl, because I had a baby face and the art school I attended allowed me to
Sexual health: Coping with barebacking peer pressure: Barebacking (condomless sex) still happens – a lot. This is even though most of us know that it
Close, but no cigar – Finding intimacy again when you’re newly single: I was lucky. Our break-up was sad and emotional, but we both
Sex vs. Intimacy – Grabbing a shag when a hug would do: It’s not unusual to hear a guy say something like: “Damn, it’s been too long since I
Health: Getting testy: Standing on Seapoint Main road in Cape Town has many connotations. More than a decade ago, my friend and I were doing just that, but it was daytime
French Letters and Chocolate Hearts: Despite being the shortest month of the year, February can be a testy one for many of us. This is because, if you’re single,
HEALTH: WARTS ‘N ALL: “Look, I’m not a perfect person. I have my warts. I sometimes say things that get me in trouble. I wear suits that are cheap. But I say
HEALTH: ORAL EXAM: “She thinks fellatio is a character in Shakespeare” – Cherry Falls (2000). Just how much do you really know about the ancient practice of oral sex,